Comments on: Swingers http://www.formerfatguyblog.com/2007/12/30/swingers.html Real People Real Results Fri, 25 Jul 2008 00:27:02 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.1.3 By: Aussie Girl http://www.formerfatguyblog.com/2007/12/30/swingers.html#comment-955 Aussie Girl Mon, 31 Dec 2007 08:08:46 +0000 http://www.formerfatguyblog.com/2007/12/30/swingers.html#comment-955 <em>Hi Just read the review on the documentry you watched in regards to Swingers...The people that were potrayed in this documentry is not a true sense of the people that do it..My husband and I are new to this, but have had dealings with friends for many years that told us how they go about it there is rules in each marriage/relationship on how when why and where. Many couples have a decent respect for each other and cleary the subjects in this documentry didn't. Most clubs will allow a single female in but not a single male. We are not bad people we were looking for some more fun in our marriage, that suited out lifestyle. It is based on trust and knowing when enough is enough.</em> Hi Just read the review on the documentry you watched in regards to Swingers…The people that were potrayed in this documentry is not a true sense of the people that do it..My husband and I are new to this, but have had dealings with friends for many years that told us how they go about it there is rules in each marriage/relationship on how when why and where. Many couples have a decent respect for each other and cleary the subjects in this documentry didn’t. Most clubs will allow a single female in but not a single male.

We are not bad people we were looking for some more fun in our marriage, that suited out lifestyle. It is based on trust and knowing when enough is enough.

]]> By: Michele http://www.formerfatguyblog.com/2007/12/30/swingers.html#comment-956 Michele Mon, 31 Dec 2007 12:21:57 +0000 http://www.formerfatguyblog.com/2007/12/30/swingers.html#comment-956 Thanks for your comment. I am glad you can shed more light on the topic. :) I fully admit I have limited knowledge on swinging but it is a topic I was curious about - and thought others might be as well. I am sorry if my article implied that I thought swingers are bad people - as I do not think they are. It is just a life style I can't see myself living. No judgment but just not for me. If there is anyone else that can tell us more about what swinging is really like, I would love to read your comments. Thanks for your comment. I am glad you can shed more light on the topic. :)

I fully admit I have limited knowledge on swinging but it is a topic I was curious about - and thought others might be as well.

I am sorry if my article implied that I thought swingers are bad people - as I do not think they are. It is just a life style I can’t see myself living. No judgment but just not for me.

If there is anyone else that can tell us more about what swinging is really like, I would love to read your comments.

]]> By: Danni and B http://www.formerfatguyblog.com/2007/12/30/swingers.html#comment-960 Danni and B Tue, 01 Jan 2008 15:04:42 +0000 http://www.formerfatguyblog.com/2007/12/30/swingers.html#comment-960 If you really want to know what it's like in the world of swingers, you might be interested in our blog. It's very adult, in case that offends. We'd be glad to answer any questions you may have. Danni and B If you really want to know what it’s like in the world of swingers, you might be interested in our blog. It’s very adult, in case that offends. We’d be glad to answer any questions you may have.

Danni and B

]]> By: Michele http://www.formerfatguyblog.com/2007/12/30/swingers.html#comment-961 Michele Tue, 01 Jan 2008 16:52:30 +0000 http://www.formerfatguyblog.com/2007/12/30/swingers.html#comment-961 Thanks Danni and B. Thanks Danni and B.

]]> By: onesmartcookie http://www.formerfatguyblog.com/2007/12/30/swingers.html#comment-964 onesmartcookie Wed, 02 Jan 2008 03:13:07 +0000 http://www.formerfatguyblog.com/2007/12/30/swingers.html#comment-964 Whoa. It worked for me. Heh, ... wasn't expecting that. Whoa. It worked for me. Heh, … wasn’t expecting that.

]]> By: The Beautiful Kind http://www.formerfatguyblog.com/2007/12/30/swingers.html#comment-1010 The Beautiful Kind Sat, 26 Jan 2008 05:18:47 +0000 http://www.formerfatguyblog.com/2007/12/30/swingers.html#comment-1010 You said this: "I do not want to be so emotionally detached from my partner that seeing him be sexual with another woman doesn’t bother me. " I feel the opposite of this - I feel super emotionally close to my partner, and seeing him with another woman excites me very much. I don't feel threatened by it - I love watching him enjoy himself and it makes me feel proud to see another woman thrill at his touch. There's a word for describing the experience of feeling pleasure when one's partner is with another person, it's the opposite of jealousy - it's compersion. I've reached a whole level of complex emotions I never thought possible. It took some evolving, but I was curious from the beginning and I've never been the monogamous type. You said this: “I do not want to be so emotionally detached from my partner that seeing him be sexual with another woman doesn’t bother me. ”

I feel the opposite of this - I feel super emotionally close to my partner, and seeing him with another woman excites me very much. I don’t feel threatened by it - I love watching him enjoy himself and it makes me feel proud to see another woman thrill at his touch. There’s a word for describing the experience of feeling pleasure when one’s partner is with another person, it’s the opposite of jealousy - it’s compersion. I’ve reached a whole level of complex emotions I never thought possible. It took some evolving, but I was curious from the beginning and I’ve never been the monogamous type.

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