Comments on: Swingers http://www.formerfatguyblog.com/2007/12/30/swingers.html Wed, 28 Jul 2010 03:13:34 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=abc By: The Nibblers http://www.formerfatguyblog.com/2007/12/30/swingers.html/comment-page-1#comment-2338 The Nibblers Fri, 02 Jul 2010 22:05:32 +0000 http://www.formerfatguyblog.com/2007/12/30/swingers.html#comment-2338 It seems like the only press Swingers get is bad press. It seems like the only press Swingers get is bad press.

]]> By: Slimming Patch http://www.formerfatguyblog.com/2007/12/30/swingers.html/comment-page-1#comment-2303 Slimming Patch Tue, 01 Jun 2010 19:03:16 +0000 http://www.formerfatguyblog.com/2007/12/30/swingers.html#comment-2303 Swiging sounds like good exercise, doesn't it? Swiging sounds like good exercise, doesn’t it?

]]> By: Jude G http://www.formerfatguyblog.com/2007/12/30/swingers.html/comment-page-1#comment-2252 Jude G Wed, 07 Apr 2010 12:53:05 +0000 http://www.formerfatguyblog.com/2007/12/30/swingers.html#comment-2252 hey, apparently the first love hotel will open in France next summer, in Pontoise, next to Paris!!!! So cool!!! I was waiting for it in france for ages!! hey, apparently the first love hotel will open in France next summer, in Pontoise, next to Paris!!!! So cool!!! I was waiting for it in france for ages!!

]]> By: candace http://www.formerfatguyblog.com/2007/12/30/swingers.html/comment-page-1#comment-2216 candace Sat, 13 Mar 2010 01:08:32 +0000 http://www.formerfatguyblog.com/2007/12/30/swingers.html#comment-2216 My experience on swingerscoast2coast.com has been an exciting one....I love being able to chat with other swingers...Just by talking to them you can fulfill your deepest fantasies....Not to mention the erotic games are a blast to play...On here you don't have to pretend to be somebody you're not...It is a relieving feeling to just be yourself and not have to worry about being judged for being a swinger, being gay, being straight, or being bisexual...Subscribing to this site was one of the best things I have ever done...Like I said its just a satisfying feeling to be able to be yourself and to be able to act out your fantasies no matter how crazy or erotic they are. My experience on swingerscoast2coast.com has been an exciting one….I love being able to chat with other swingers…Just by talking to them you can fulfill your deepest fantasies….Not to mention the erotic games are a blast to play…On here you don’t have to pretend to be somebody you’re not…It is a relieving feeling to just be yourself and not have to worry about being judged for being a swinger, being gay, being straight, or being bisexual…Subscribing to this site was one of the best things I have ever done…Like I said its just a satisfying feeling to be able to be yourself and to be able to act out your fantasies no matter how crazy or erotic they are.

]]> By: Inked http://www.formerfatguyblog.com/2007/12/30/swingers.html/comment-page-1#comment-1851 Inked Thu, 19 Feb 2009 15:48:38 +0000 http://www.formerfatguyblog.com/2007/12/30/swingers.html#comment-1851 I agree it is definitely not for everyone. I have been involved for the past 6 or 7 years with a few different partners. It seems the partners that know exactly what they want out of it do just fine. The ones that roll with the punches and do things that they my not want to do have a lot of problems with it. There is also many many different levels of swinging not everyone is into the "full swap" which pops into your head when you hear about swinging. For more info check out my site http://www.curious4curious.com/site lots of information and real people. I know it was a shameless plug lol! I agree it is definitely not for everyone. I have been involved for the past 6 or 7 years with a few different partners. It seems the partners that know exactly what they want out of it do just fine. The ones that roll with the punches and do things that they my not want to do have a lot of problems with it. There is also many many different levels of swinging not everyone is into the “full swap” which pops into your head when you hear about swinging. For more info check out my site http://www.curious4curious.com/site lots of information and real people. I know it was a shameless plug lol!

]]> By: Tony http://www.formerfatguyblog.com/2007/12/30/swingers.html/comment-page-1#comment-1684 Tony Mon, 19 Jan 2009 16:48:20 +0000 http://www.formerfatguyblog.com/2007/12/30/swingers.html#comment-1684 I found a really cool new site http://www.asurething.net check it out adult dating I found a really cool new site http://www.asurething.net check it out adult dating

]]> By: Derrick http://www.formerfatguyblog.com/2007/12/30/swingers.html/comment-page-1#comment-1677 Derrick Wed, 14 Jan 2009 00:36:07 +0000 http://www.formerfatguyblog.com/2007/12/30/swingers.html#comment-1677 Good write up. I have also wrote some articles myself that are very useful for couples and singles thinking of trying out the lifestyle. http://nudecrave.com/articles I tend to find that swinging is becoming more and more accepted. Whats your thoughts. Good write up.
I have also wrote some articles myself that are very useful for couples and singles thinking of trying out the lifestyle.
http://nudecrave.com/articles
I tend to find that swinging is becoming more and more accepted.
Whats your thoughts.

]]> By: Qld Couple http://www.formerfatguyblog.com/2007/12/30/swingers.html/comment-page-1#comment-1596 Qld Couple Thu, 20 Nov 2008 21:44:12 +0000 http://www.formerfatguyblog.com/2007/12/30/swingers.html#comment-1596 My partner and I have done the swinging thing, and we loved it. We have had two really great experiences with hot couples that we can also just hang out with, the end of the night is just better! We have also had 1 bad experience, but we just let that go. We just learned that you both have to be very clear on what you want and the boundaries you have. We only swing in the same room as each other and everything is done together.... we cant get enough, but our main problem is finding people we click with.. as with one of the other posts, most of the men in the swinging are not very hot, and it sucks, but it just takes time to find another couple you both click with. I am bisexual so it satisfies my needs to be with a girl, and my other half loves watching me with men, so he gets his satisfaction as well.. we have no jealousy issues, I love to watch him with girls, Its not for everyone, however, how do you know if you have never tried?? My partner and I have done the swinging thing, and we loved it. We have had two really great experiences with hot couples that we can also just hang out with, the end of the night is just better!

We have also had 1 bad experience, but we just let that go.

We just learned that you both have to be very clear on what you want and the boundaries you have. We only swing in the same room as each other and everything is done together…. we cant get enough, but our main problem is finding people we click with..

as with one of the other posts, most of the men in the swinging are not very hot, and it sucks, but it just takes time to find another couple you both click with.

I am bisexual so it satisfies my needs to be with a girl, and my other half loves watching me with men, so he gets his satisfaction as well.. we have no jealousy issues, I love to watch him with girls,

Its not for everyone, however, how do you know if you have never tried??

]]> By: tigger http://www.formerfatguyblog.com/2007/12/30/swingers.html/comment-page-1#comment-1570 tigger Fri, 26 Sep 2008 17:16:39 +0000 http://www.formerfatguyblog.com/2007/12/30/swingers.html#comment-1570 sounds like swinging isn't for you Karen, as webmaster and swinger, in fact I started swinging when it was called wife swapping LOL - I love the lifestly and so does my wife, but I do know many other that have tried and didn't enjoy it - but bottom line is - until you try you won't know sounds like swinging isn’t for you Karen, as webmaster and swinger, in fact I started swinging when it was called wife swapping LOL – I love the lifestly and so does my wife, but I do know many other that have tried and didn’t enjoy it – but bottom line is – until you try you won’t know

]]> By: Anonymous http://www.formerfatguyblog.com/2007/12/30/swingers.html/comment-page-1#comment-1534 Anonymous Sat, 02 Aug 2008 06:17:38 +0000 http://www.formerfatguyblog.com/2007/12/30/swingers.html#comment-1534 Karen I feel sorry for you having the bad experience you did. I do believe that swinging is not for everyone, for the same reason you had your bad experience. Another reason being after seeing your partner with someone else, you get that bad feeling in the pit of your stomach. Swinging is not for everyone, if either partner feels uncomfortable after trying it for the first time then by all means do not do it again. It is not worth ruining the relationship you already have. Karen I feel sorry for you having the bad experience you did. I do believe that swinging is not for everyone, for the same reason you had your bad experience. Another reason being after seeing your partner with someone else, you get that bad feeling in the pit of your stomach. Swinging is not for everyone, if either partner feels uncomfortable after trying it for the first time then by all means do not do it again. It is not worth ruining the relationship you already have.

]]> By: Karen Miler http://www.formerfatguyblog.com/2007/12/30/swingers.html/comment-page-1#comment-1533 Karen Miler Fri, 01 Aug 2008 22:03:32 +0000 http://www.formerfatguyblog.com/2007/12/30/swingers.html#comment-1533 My husband and I have played around with swinging and the only thing I got out of it was bacterial vaginosis from another female and a lot of lectures from my husband on how to behave. I now refuse to do it anymore. It may be for some but not for me. Another thing is that it seems that the women take better care of their appearances than the men so I was left having sex with men that were no where near as nice looking as my husband..........So who was the winner in all this? NOT ME! My husband and I have played around with swinging and the only thing I got out of it was bacterial vaginosis from another female and a lot of lectures from my husband on how to behave. I now refuse to do it anymore. It may be for some but not for me. Another thing is that it seems that the women take better care of their appearances than the men so I was left having sex with men that were no where near as nice looking as my husband……….So who was the winner in all this? NOT ME!

]]> By: The Beautiful Kind http://www.formerfatguyblog.com/2007/12/30/swingers.html/comment-page-1#comment-1010 The Beautiful Kind Sat, 26 Jan 2008 05:18:47 +0000 http://www.formerfatguyblog.com/2007/12/30/swingers.html#comment-1010 You said this: "I do not want to be so emotionally detached from my partner that seeing him be sexual with another woman doesn’t bother me. " I feel the opposite of this - I feel super emotionally close to my partner, and seeing him with another woman excites me very much. I don't feel threatened by it - I love watching him enjoy himself and it makes me feel proud to see another woman thrill at his touch. There's a word for describing the experience of feeling pleasure when one's partner is with another person, it's the opposite of jealousy - it's compersion. I've reached a whole level of complex emotions I never thought possible. It took some evolving, but I was curious from the beginning and I've never been the monogamous type. You said this: “I do not want to be so emotionally detached from my partner that seeing him be sexual with another woman doesn’t bother me. ”

I feel the opposite of this – I feel super emotionally close to my partner, and seeing him with another woman excites me very much. I don’t feel threatened by it – I love watching him enjoy himself and it makes me feel proud to see another woman thrill at his touch. There’s a word for describing the experience of feeling pleasure when one’s partner is with another person, it’s the opposite of jealousy – it’s compersion. I’ve reached a whole level of complex emotions I never thought possible. It took some evolving, but I was curious from the beginning and I’ve never been the monogamous type.

]]> By: onesmartcookie http://www.formerfatguyblog.com/2007/12/30/swingers.html/comment-page-1#comment-964 onesmartcookie Wed, 02 Jan 2008 03:13:07 +0000 http://www.formerfatguyblog.com/2007/12/30/swingers.html#comment-964 Whoa. It worked for me. Heh, ... wasn't expecting that. Whoa. It worked for me. Heh, … wasn’t expecting that.

]]> By: Michele http://www.formerfatguyblog.com/2007/12/30/swingers.html/comment-page-1#comment-961 Michele Tue, 01 Jan 2008 16:52:30 +0000 http://www.formerfatguyblog.com/2007/12/30/swingers.html#comment-961 Thanks Danni and B. Thanks Danni and B.

]]> By: Danni and B http://www.formerfatguyblog.com/2007/12/30/swingers.html/comment-page-1#comment-960 Danni and B Tue, 01 Jan 2008 15:04:42 +0000 http://www.formerfatguyblog.com/2007/12/30/swingers.html#comment-960 If you really want to know what it's like in the world of swingers, you might be interested in our blog. It's very adult, in case that offends. We'd be glad to answer any questions you may have. Danni and B If you really want to know what it’s like in the world of swingers, you might be interested in our blog. It’s very adult, in case that offends. We’d be glad to answer any questions you may have.

Danni and B

]]> By: Michele http://www.formerfatguyblog.com/2007/12/30/swingers.html/comment-page-1#comment-956 Michele Mon, 31 Dec 2007 12:21:57 +0000 http://www.formerfatguyblog.com/2007/12/30/swingers.html#comment-956 Thanks for your comment. I am glad you can shed more light on the topic. :) I fully admit I have limited knowledge on swinging but it is a topic I was curious about - and thought others might be as well. I am sorry if my article implied that I thought swingers are bad people - as I do not think they are. It is just a life style I can't see myself living. No judgment but just not for me. If there is anyone else that can tell us more about what swinging is really like, I would love to read your comments. Thanks for your comment. I am glad you can shed more light on the topic. :)

I fully admit I have limited knowledge on swinging but it is a topic I was curious about – and thought others might be as well.

I am sorry if my article implied that I thought swingers are bad people – as I do not think they are. It is just a life style I can’t see myself living. No judgment but just not for me.

If there is anyone else that can tell us more about what swinging is really like, I would love to read your comments.

]]> By: Aussie Girl http://www.formerfatguyblog.com/2007/12/30/swingers.html/comment-page-1#comment-955 Aussie Girl Mon, 31 Dec 2007 08:08:46 +0000 http://www.formerfatguyblog.com/2007/12/30/swingers.html#comment-955 <em>Hi Just read the review on the documentry you watched in regards to Swingers...The people that were potrayed in this documentry is not a true sense of the people that do it..My husband and I are new to this, but have had dealings with friends for many years that told us how they go about it there is rules in each marriage/relationship on how when why and where. Many couples have a decent respect for each other and cleary the subjects in this documentry didn't. Most clubs will allow a single female in but not a single male. We are not bad people we were looking for some more fun in our marriage, that suited out lifestyle. It is based on trust and knowing when enough is enough.</em> Hi Just read the review on the documentry you watched in regards to Swingers…The people that were potrayed in this documentry is not a true sense of the people that do it..My husband and I are new to this, but have had dealings with friends for many years that told us how they go about it there is rules in each marriage/relationship on how when why and where. Many couples have a decent respect for each other and cleary the subjects in this documentry didn’t. Most clubs will allow a single female in but not a single male.

We are not bad people we were looking for some more fun in our marriage, that suited out lifestyle. It is based on trust and knowing when enough is enough.

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